8.11.21 Words Unspoken

This is what I really want to say but I feel by saying it it's not fair - because I am taking away from what you are feeling and because I not respecting the space I told you I'd give

D- I can't imagine how much pain you are in. But know this, this affects us both. I am also in pain. And I get that we don't know what the future will bring but I know that right now, it would be foolish and premature to rush into a decision. I know that right now, I am here for you and with you. And you have the choice to bring the pain into the relationship and we can carry it together. Or we can each be hurting and confused on our own.

(Somehow) with this message, you are being here for me. I have a great support system. Right now, I just want to be here for you

I am here and I support you. I am in pain not just for my own pain but also because you are in pain.

Hang in there. I love you